And guess what? I wish I did it sooner.

If you have someone in your life that causes you pain in any way, whether it’s constantly, unabashedly lying to you and everyone around you, taking advantage of yours and the kindness of others, and just always seeming to be surrounded by some sort of drama that hurts others but in the end benefits them somehow – do yourself a HUGE favor and CUT✂️THEM✂️OUT✂️

No matter what they come up with to try to reel you back into their narcissistic world, dig your heels in and remember how much better your life is without them. It helps to remind yourself of every single seriously messed up thing they’ve ever done and then you should absolve yourself from the guilt.

Think about how you felt like something was missing from your life at first, but then realized it was just that constant feeling of stress. That “missing” feeling was actually peace.

It’s especially hard when you’re an empath like me, I know. It’s also hard when you’re afraid the world will think you’re the bad guy. You can’t care about that – just CUT✂️THEM✂️OUT✂️ and go on with your life.

I’m not gonna lie, the narcissist will continue to cry to everyone about how terrible you are and try to make you look bad.

They’re angry because they’re used to getting their way with people no matter how badly they’ve treated them.

They’ll use the situation as a tool to get other people to feel sorry for them and it will work.

But remember, these people will always continue to hurt the ones closest to them – the ones who love and help them the most.

They’re like vultures who prey on kindness and won’t stop sucking until the bones are clean. Then they will toss you away like a carcass when there’s nothing left for you to give or do for them.

And even if they keep you around because there’s always something you can do for them, they will still talk badly about you behind your back. They can’t help themselves. Believe me, you might think they care about you, but no matter how much you think they love you, they’re still mocking you when you’re not around. They are loyal to NO ONE.

Just keep your head high. Don’t stoop to their level. The world doesn’t need to know all the things they’ve done to you and everyone else. You know. Rest assured that that’s enough.

I mean … if the person can’t stfu and leave well enough alone, you can always write an entire passive-aggressive blog entry about them if it makes you feel better. That helps too ♥️